In this TW Jackson review, I’m going to let you know a bit about the author TW Jackson and then review his bestselling book on the subject of how to get your ex back, The Magic of Making Up.
TW Jackson (who also goes by his nickname T Dub) is the most unlikely of people to write a bestselling book in the field of relationships. He has a military background which begun at the age of 17 when he enlisted in the United States Navy. Over many years he has lived in countless homes in five US states and 11 different countries of the world.
He has not studied at any university or college and neither has he ever worked as a professional relationship therapist. It was during his time in the military, through the School of Hard Knocks, where his relationship expertise was learned. How it worked out was that in his military postings he was forced to travel to many different places and relate to an even wider range of different people. Failure wasn’t an option – he had to quickly find out what worked and apply it. This resulted in him developing highly superior people skills in which he was able to read people, predict their likely behavior, and even influence their actions. Over time, his friends recognized these abilities and came to him whenever they had people problems (especially in the area of romantic relationships).
Through years of helping those around him strengthen their troubled relationships and restore their broken ones, Jackson has gained huge experience and expertise in these particular areas. The high divorce rate for military couples meant that he had no shortage of people to practice on! Eventually he realized that he needed to share his expertise with a much wider audience through writing a book.
In The Magic of Making Up, Jackson reduces all of his experience down into a simple, easy to follow recipe for getting that special person in your life back after a breakup, and then maintaining that relationship. The advice which he gives follows these steps:
1. Work out what caused the breakup
2. Spend time regaining your emotional control
3. Enlarge your life
4. Contact your ex and try to reconnect with him
5. Work on keeping the spark alive if you successfully restore the relationship
6. Accept it’s over and move on if the relationship cannot be saved.
For each of the above steps Jackson goes into a lot of detail to make sure that you know exactly what to do and when to do it. And this brings up an important point – the right timing for each step is absolutely crucial in his methodology. For if you make a mistake here, your chances of restoring the relationship with the one you love will fall dramatically. To give an example, immediately after the breakup you will probably be an emotional wreck because of how much the relationship means to you. As a rule, we humans do not react to such a significant loss in a very productive way. Due to this, you won’t be thinking rationally. Instead you will have the tendency to do stupid things like call him straight away and explode with anger over the phone, or alternatively you might break down in tears and beg him to take you back. But neither of these strategies is going to help the situation; more than likely they will push your ex further away and extinguish any real hope of a reconciliation. This is why Jackson’s methodology has steps two and three and why he puts them before step four. But what most people do is jump from step one right up to step four, skipping the crucial in between steps which give you your best chance of causing your ex to feel that he made a big mistake. Without going through these important steps all you will do is confirm to him that he made the right decision in dumping you.
Overall, my view on The Magic of Making Up is that it contains some really great advice on how to get your ex back, which has been tested and proved over time. I am confident that if you follow this advice it will give you every opportunity to restore your relationship, if it is actually possible to do so. Of course there are no certainties, since you are dealing with the will of another human being. But what Jackson does to reduce your risk is offer a 60-day guarantee on the book. Try the material and see if it works – if not, you can claim a full refund. And the book only costs $39 to begin with. Not much of an investment to get your ex back!
TW Jackson Review: The Magic of Making Up
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